Xie Dan made me do it...I square!!!

Your Existing Situation

Working to improve her image in the eyes of others so as to obtain their compliance and agreement with her needs and wishes. Wow I must be manipulative.

Your Stress Sources

Feels unappreciated and finds the existing situation disagreeable. Wants personal recognition and the esteem of others to compensate for the lack of like-minded people with whom to ally herself and make herself more secure. Her sensual self-restraint makes it difficult for her to give herself, but the resulting isolation leads to the urge to surrender and merge with another. This disturbs her as she regards such instincts as weaknesses to be overcome; only by not succumbing to them, she feels, can she withstand the difficulties of the situation. Wants to be valued as a desirable associate and admired for her personal qualities. *ahem* "sensual self-restraint" See! I'm not a Ho! No more Kim Yu-Ho!

Your Restrained Characteristics

Feels listless, hemmed in, and anxious; considers that circumstances and forcing her to restrain her desires. Wants to avoid open conflict with others and to have peace and quiet.

Willing to become emotionally involved, but demanding and particular in her choice of a partner and in her relations with those close to her. Needs reassurance and is careful
to avoid open conflict since this might reduce her prospects of realizing her hopes. Dang I'm selfish

Insists that her goals are realistic and sticks obstinately to them, even though circumstances are forcing her to compromise. Very exacting in the standards she applies to her choice of a partner. Ouch...sorry ladies, well just Tesia. I kinda prefer men

Your Desired Objective

Desires a tranquil, peaceful state of harmony offering quiet contentment and a sense of belonging. No drama...that's me

Your Actual Problem

Wants to be valued and respected, and seeks this from a close and peaceful association of mutual esteem.

Your Actual Problem #2

Depleted vitality has created an intolerance for any further stimulation, or demands on her resources. A feeling of powerlessness subjects her to agitation and acute distress. Tries to escape from this by relinquishing the struggle, and by finding peaceful and restful conditions in which to recuperate in an atmosphere of affection and security. Like sleep...

I know I am...but what are you?